Why people, especially girls tend to walk in packs bewilders me. Its fascinating, how about 6-8 girls move together in formation talking, laughing, and just crowded.
Here at school, its not rare to see people walk in groups of threes and fives. But most times, there is this vibe coming off that is quite…lost on me.
Now, there’s a girl group that always move together like a wolf pack. There’s the Alpha Female, And her Betas and Omegas.
So, Miss Alpha, doubles as Queen Bee. She’s the leader of the group, the most beautiful of them all and most times than not, the best dressed. EXTREMELY FEMININE. She walks in front, flanked on her left and right by her betas. Miss B and Miss C. She’s bold, snarly, confident and wears blinding colours. (Most likely RED). All in all, She’s hard to miss. Every member answers to her. She’s Queen after all.
Miss B. Is the next in command. The Highest ranking Beta. She acts Alpha when Miss Alpha isn’t present (which is not often). She looks good too but never tries to overshadow the queen. She is the one the Alpha speaks to most. Chews gum loudly. She’s the second to be noticed after the Alpha. Probably a fierce and Loyal friend of the Alpha, but most likely trying to get ALPHA post DISCREETLY.
Now, they are other Betas and Omegas in the group, but these two run the show. Or in this case, THE PACK. The other members follow the alpha female and walk behind. They try to please the alpha and are often times ignored.. that is until Miss Alpha needs their services.
Its weird how they all strike a pose when the Queen stops for a conversation with a random person. Its also weird when you think of the Queen and Beta talking. Just how exactly does all 7 of them hear what is being said?
And when they all move to classes, they sit in this particular row. Yes.. 7 girls, straight sitting, wearing horrendous pinks, blues, greens, yellows, orange scarves in colours that destroy eyesights.
And when a bad word is said about one,the news passes on and she is isolated. Oh and then she finds this dark corner and cries, lamenting about her sudden a loneliness and might subsequently start plotting how to ruin the group. Yes, it is what it is. Unnecessary torture of oneself. Yes, I know. I’m often times the dump for “friendship troubles” mostly because I just sit down, absorb and keep mute in the dorm.
Why do teenagers find the need to be a part of a “PACK”? Why do people think that they need to follow the trend and be a part of something only just be to noticed, called cute, wear extravagant Pinks, make snarky comments at people and Feel like you own the world?
Is it some kind of inferiority complex that makes teens try to belong? Or are they just in real need of company? I had one girl come up to me and ask me to walk with her because she doesn’t like to walk alone, as she feels it makes her feel like she wants everyone to notice her.I wasn’t going her way and I didn’t want to walk with her but she insisted so much and I just had to walk with her to the store she was heading to.
I don’t deny that people need friends, but why at the prize of your sanity and peace of mind should you try so hard to please people?
It bewilders me when people try to force friendship. Why wear heels if you know you’ll just plop down flat on your face without confidence just a single step the wrong way?
Why wear glasses when you have no eye issues? Why dress like Cheyenne when you know it isn’t comfort for you but just you trying to belong? Why go for things you can’t afford? Why bleach your skin because Alpha Female is a very pretty light?
WHY NOT ACCEPT YOURSELF AND LEARN TO LOVE YOUR OWN COMPANY?
Don’t force yourself to be like other people.
Why not be the unique YOU you are?
A major mistake is not learning from the past ones